Permission for a Fasting Man to Kiss

13 Yahya related to me from Malik from Zayd ibn Aslam from 'Ata' ibn Yasar that a certain man kissed his wife while he was fasting in Ramadan. This made him very anxious, and so he sent his wife to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, to ask him about that for him. She went in and saw Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and mentioned the matter to her, and Umm Salama told her that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss while he was fasting. So she went back and told her husband that, but it only made him find fault all the more and he said, " We are not like the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Allah makes permissible for the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whatever He wishes."

His wife then went back to Umm Salama and found the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, with her. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, " What is the matter with this woman? ", and Umm Salama told him. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, " Did you not tell her that I do that myself? " and she said, " I told her, and she went to her husband and told him, but it only made him find fault all the more and say, 'We are not like the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Allah makes permissible for His Messenger, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, whatever He wishes.' " The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, got angry and said, " By Allah, I am the one with the most taqwa of Allah of you all, and of you all the one who best knows His limits."

[Ash-Shafi'i has it in the Risala]

14 Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn 'Urwa from his father that 'A'isha, Umm al-Muminin, may Allah be pleased with her, said, " The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss certain of his wives when fasting, " and then she laughed.

[cf Bukhari 1827]

15 Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Sa'id that 'Atika bint Zayd ibn 'Amr ibn Nufayl, the wife of 'Umar ibn al-Khattab, used to kiss 'Umar ibn al-Khattab's head while he was fasting, and he did not forbid her.

16 Yahya related to me from Malik from Abu'n-Nadr, the mawla of 'Umar ibn 'Ubaydullah that 'A'isha bint Talha told him that she was once with 'A'isha, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and her husband, who was fasting, came and visited her there. (He was 'Abdullah ibn 'Abd ar-Rahman ibn Abi Bakr as-Siddiq). 'A'isha said to him, " What's stopping you from coming close to your wife and kissing her and joking with her? " He asked, " Can I kiss her when I am fasting? " She said, " Yes."

17 Yahya related to me from Malik from Zayd ibn Aslam that Abu Hurayra and Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas used to say that someone who was fasting was allowed to kiss.

Being strict about Kissing when Fasting

18 Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that 'A'isha, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, would say, when she mentioned that the Messenger of Allah used to kiss while fasting, " And who among you is more able to control himself than the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace? "

[cf Bukhari 1826]

Yahya said that Malik said that Hisham ibn 'Urwa ibn az-Zubayr had said, " I do not think that kissing invites people who are fasting to good."

19 Yahya related to me from Malik from Zayd ibn Aslam from 'Ata' ibn Yasar that 'Abdullah ibn 'Abbas was asked about people kissing while fasting and he said that he allowed it for old men but disapproved of it for young men.

20 Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi' that 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar used to forbid kissing and fondling for people who were fasting.

Fasting while Travelling

21 Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab from 'Ubaydullah ibn 'Abdullah ibn 'Utba ibn Mas'ud from 'Abdullah ibn 'Abbas that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, left for Makka in Ramadan during the year of the conquest, and fasted until he reached al-Kadid. He then broke the fast, and so everyone else did so as well. What people used to do was act according to whatever the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, had done most recently.

[cf Bukhari 1842]

22 Yahya related to me from Malik from Sumayy, the mawla of Abu Bakr ibn 'Abd ar-Rahman, from Abu Bakr ibn 'Abd ar-Rahman from one of the companions of the Messenger of Allah, that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, ordered everyone to break the fast on the journey he made in the year of the conquest saying, " Be strong for your enemy, " while the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, kept on fasting. Abu Bakr said that the one who related this to him said, " I saw the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, pouring water over his head at al-'Arj, either from thirst or from the heat. Then someone said to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, 'Messenger of Allah, a group of people kept on fasting when you did.' Then when the Messenger of Allah was at al-Kadid, he asked for a drinking-bowl and drank, and everyone broke the fast."

[In Muslim]

23 Yahya related to me from Malik from Humayd at-Tawil that Anas ibn Malik said, " We once travelled with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, in Ramadan, and those who were fasting did not find fault with those who were not, and those who were not fasting did not find fault with those who were."

[cf Bukhari 1845]

24 Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn 'Urwa from his father that Hamza ibn 'Amr al-Aslami once said to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, " Messenger of Allah, I am a man who fasts. Can I fast when travelling? " The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, replied, " If you want you can fast, and if you want you can break the fast."

[cf Bukhari 1841]

25 Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi' that 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar used not to fast while travelling.

26 Yahya related to me from Malik that Hisham ibn 'Urwa said, " My father, 'Urwa, used to travel in Ramadan and we would travel with him, and he used to fast while we would break the fast and he would not tell us to fast."

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